One vivid school memory stands out. During a sports event, our class got scattered like autumn leaves caught at a red traffic light, allowing another class to surge ahead. We chose not to chase after them. Instead, we followed a neighboring class, reassured by our vice head teacher's presence. Upon returning to school, our carefree mood was shattered. Our homeroom teacher scolded us, and we were banished to the hallway for punishment. Confused, we complied, feeling like unjustly accused souls. During lunch, while others enjoyed their meals and socialized, we were confined to the classroom until our parents arrived. Desperate for a lifeline, I secretly called my mom, pleading, "Please come pick me up." She agreed, but upon arrival, she scolded me for not explaining the situation over the phone, worried about her driving safety. As my dad was away working in Beijing, my mom was our only transportation, despite her less-than-confident driving skills. I stood there, misunderstood and unfairly punished, feeling like a lone island adrift in a sea of confusion.
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This article also discussed an experience with children, teachers, and parents. It also provides advices for parents. Read it if you are interested in this: https://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/teachers-who-bully
Some advice it offers for parents are:
Develop a Habit of Talking Openly About School With Your Child
Talk With the Teacher in a Nonadversarial Manner: always tell your child before you go to see the teacher to show that you respect your child's independence and free-will
Take Your Complaint Higher: communicate with high authority (like the principal).
Reassure Your Child: let your child know that you are always on their back.